Crying in H Mart: A Memoir Paperback – 28 March 2023

Even though I couldn't relate to the identity crisis and the food narratives, yet fewer have been the times, I have felt so deeply connected with anything in my life. This book bears an exception.It's achingly beautiful. I could exactly understand what Zauner is trying to convey and at the same time, I fail to explain in words.This book is a complex and yet a tender palpability. As hard as she may have tried, Zauner never wanted her mom's last words to be 'pain'. I realised how important are parting words. Their finality shapes you in an unprecedented way.

Food, Korean food specifically, is the central theme of this book. So I would recommend it to:1. People who enjoy cooking and reading about food2. People who like intimate, indie books3. Fans of K Pop and K Dramas who are curious to learn more about Korean culture.

Crying in H Mart” by Michelle Zauner is a poignant memoir that delves into the intricate layers of identity, grief, and the profound dynamics of mother-daughter relationships. Zauner’s writing skillfully captures the essence of her Korean heritage, weaving a narrative that is both emotionally charged and beautifully articulated.The memoir takes readers on a compelling journey through the author’s experiences, exploring the depths of loss, the complexities of love, and the profound impact of cultural roots. Zauner’s ability to convey raw and authentic emotions makes each page resonate with a deep sense of honesty. As she navigates the challenges of her personal journey, readers are drawn into a narrative that is not just about individual experiences but also about the broader themes of self-discovery and acceptance.The richness of Zauner’s storytelling lies in her vivid descriptions and the palpable emotions she conveys. From the aisles of H Mart to the complexities of grief, every aspect of the narrative is infused with a sense of authenticity. “Crying in H Mart” is more than a memoir; it’s a powerful exploration of the human experience and the universal quest for belonging. This book is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and a poignant reminder of the importance of embracing one’s roots in the journey of self-discovery.

I feel a bit conflicted sharing my thoughts on Crying in H Mart. It is such a beloved memoir, but I found myself in the minority with my experience. It didn't quite reach the same emotional heights as I expected, and though engaging, I didn't shed any tears while reading it.Michelle Zauner's courage in sharing her life story, particularly her intricate relationship with her mother and the journey through grief, is undeniable. However, the effectiveness of this memoir is somewhat hindered by its writing style, which felt more introspective. I also tried listening to the audiobook, narrated by Zauner herself, but I couldn't shake the feeling that the emotions fell a bit flat. Having read other memoirs on grief and loss, I found this one somewhat lacking in comparison.The memoir opens with a poignant Korean saying, "Save your tears for when your mother dies," setting the tone for Zauner's exploration of her mother's life and their shared love for food, especially Korean cuisine, through which Zauner paints a vivid picture of her mother's influence on her life. Most of us have similar experiences of remembering our mothers through the dishes they cooked, and in that way, it is highly relatable. However, despite the relatability of this theme, I couldn't help but feel that the narrative lost some of its momentum as it progressed.At times, the motif of food, which is central and significant, overshadowed other emotional and relational aspects that begged for more attention. I wished for more depth and complexity in certain areas. It occasionally felt repetitive, and I struggled to maintain my attention towards the middle and end.It feels odd to assign a rating to this book because it seems more like a personal journey for Zauner than a narrative intended for an audience. It felt deeply intimate and uniquely hers. Her honesty about the messy dynamics within her family adds depth to her portrayal of grief, although I wished it had resonated with me as deeply as it did with others. However, I appreciate Zauner's bravery in sharing her story and the insight it offers into the complexities of grief and cultural identity.

A daughter celebrating the memories of her lovely mother in her endless mourning. It hits you in the gut and also gently strokes you at the back in a reassuring manner. This book is about letting the dead not die. This book is about keeping in touch with what's gone forever. If you have ever lost anyone you truly loved you will thank Michelle Zauner with all your heart. I took my first ever Korean dinner with the love of my life, thanks to this book.

Like - It showcases emotions in different ways and that is very beautiful. The mother and daughter bond and the beautiful description of korean culture.Dislike - In between it got a bit slow and boring so had to be patient and consistent very much.Overall- Nice book

A debut novel. Emotional subject. Done too well. I prefer memoirs as they have the truthfulness, this struck thr chord perfect. Surely my second best novel, Shantaram will always be first!

This book is a reminder of what love is in its entirety. Love between a mother and her daughter that are at times enraging and endearing. I was on an emotional roller coaster throughout the pages. Their dialogue and encounter are close to my heart. I have a mother. My mother has a mother and all of us have been there.