Unfuck Your Intimacy: Using Science for Better Relationships, Sex, and Dating (5-minute Therapy)

Four starts only because the book was physically damaged. The last twenty or so pages was damaged at the binding.The book itself is great. Dr Harper speaks in a manner that is down to earth and not at all obnoxious.I am a terrible reader with no attention span but I got so into this book that I finished it in two days.I wish i had gotten this book earlier as I had just been dumped from a 8 year relationship last week..If you are a couple going through rough patches, if you and/or your partner have depression or anxiety that is affecting your relationship this book is for you.It literally pointed out all the issues we were having that probably would’ve helped.

As a heterosexual woman that has not been through any trauma looking for information and ways to connect with The husband after 11 years of marriage this book wasn’t what we needed. I felt like this book was more geared to working on ones self rather than a relationship. There were only about 3 chapters that we felt we could connect to and incorporate into our marriage. This book had a wide range of information. It was all inclusive to people of all sexual orientations that were dating, looking to date, and in a relationship. The information was so wide ranged it felt as if the author mentioned issues but couldn’t go into specific details because there was just so much already.It wasn’t what we needed, but for someone working through trauma and trying to connect and understand themselves this would be phenomenal !

I really enjoyed the questions throughout this book! I felt like I took away a lot of useful advice! Recommend having a journal next to you to jot down your thoughts when they arise!

I haven’t read the whole book yet but I’ve been reading through it and it’s written in a very compassionate and easy going way and the information seems to be very accurate at least to my experiences with trauma. I’m super happy I found this book.

This is by far the best relationship book I’ve read. Very enlightened and inclusive, I’ve learned to much about myself, my relationship, and relationships that are much different than my own. I definitely suggest reading it.

I did not enjoy this book. I thought that the voice throughout was very distracting from the overall message. It felt like she tried harder to look cool than to give genuine advice. Maybe this would be helpful for someone new to therapy, but I didn’t find it helpful at all. Not a lot of deep insight. More just explanation of what things are.

This book is an absolute must read for anybody trying to get in touch with or maintain a healthy level of intimacy I'm their life. Whether it's for getting ready to date, new love, long time love or just working on yourself this book is amazing.

This is a great book! I learn a lot about relationships and dating and loved the questions she has throughout the book.