--- product_id: 2433849 title: "The New Codependency: Help and Guidance for Today's Generation" brand: "melody beattie" price: "3146 som" currency: KGS in_stock: true reviews_count: 4 url: https://www.desertcart.kg/products/2433849-the-new-codependency-help-and-guidance-for-todays-generation store_origin: KG region: Kyrgyzstan --- # The New Codependency: Help and Guidance for Today's Generation **Brand:** melody beattie **Price:** 3146 som **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** The New Codependency: Help and Guidance for Today's Generation by melody beattie - **How much does it cost?** 3146 som with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.kg](https://www.desertcart.kg/products/2433849-the-new-codependency-help-and-guidance-for-todays-generation) ## Best For - melody beattie enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted melody beattie brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description The New Codependency: Help and Guidance for Today's Generation ## Images ![The New Codependency: Help and Guidance for Today's Generation - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/81MGvOHq+NL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ The best Codependency Book I have read. My favorite Melody Beattie book! Very helpful and meaningful book! *by D***S on February 18, 2015* Having read and benefited from several of Melody Beattie books I decided to purchase her newest book regarding Codependency. So glad that I did so. This book is so thought provoking and has been so enlightening for me!After re-reading several of Melody Beattie books (Co-Dependent No More, Beyond Co-Dependency, Journey of the Heart, Language of Letting Go, and also Co-Dependent Guide to the Twelve Steps, I found this book to be her best work ever and below is why this is now my favorite Melody Beattie book:1) Taking Care of Ourselves section - There is more information in this part of this book and more updated then her previous books. For example, in this beginning section, she shares some of her experiences. This sets the stage for more of how to take care of ones self that is explained more later into this book.2) My favorite part of this book (most helpful one) is SECTION TWO ..The Evolving Art of Self Care. This part gives two steps to help right away with Co-Dependency - 1) Identify Teachers and Lessons Learned 2) Expressing Gratitude is a powerful practice She suggests writing a Gratitude Journal and it does work!3) Also in Section Two is SETTING BOUNDARIES - This one has a checklist of how to set boundaries and how to set GOOD BOUNDARIES with people. This works in any type of relationship, with a partner, co-worker, friend, etc. This section has wonderful and to the point checklists that are easy to follow! And she even has a section on what Boundaries ARE NOT!4) The section on Is it Love or Control? This explains the difference between normal love and compassion vs a controlling relationship. Ms Beattie used her own life experiences to explain examples of controlling and more.5) The last section in this book called How To Find Help For Almost Anything - this is a must read section as it gives a number to call for help in all 50 states.6) This book is updated and NO FLUFF, just meaningful reading in my opinion.Highly recommend this book for anyone who wants to take better care of themselves whether in a relationship or not! ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A new take on helpful ideas *by L***O on January 11, 2012* I have always been a fan of Melody Beattie's work, and I have benefited enormously from it since the old days of Codependent No More. I have not been in a relationship with someone addicted, but I nevertheless recognized myself in the description of the Codependent. There were so many similarities: not being able to take care of myself, obsessing about other people, taking care of everyone's needs (apart from my own, that is), not having boundaries. I seemed to be a textbook codependent, except that I did not get involved with alcoholics. So I just went along with what she had to say and read several of her books.The New Codependency is one of the best ones. It has all the usual qualities of her work:*She uses an empowering tone: of course you can make it. And to be honest, when she describes her life of a former junkie, you cannot help thinking: well, if she managed to get out of this mess, Surely I can get out of mine.*Her book is packed with examples. The fact of the matter is, I can see problems and solutions so much more easily when I read about someone else. Examples allow me to do that.*There is a lot of practical, down to earth advice. I cannot count the number of books I've read which describe my dreadful problems, but then leave me there with a vague "well I guess you need therapy" chapter. I hate it. Don't talk to me about my issues if you are not able to offer one hint of advice on how to solve them.In The New Codependency, Melody Beattie tackles important concepts she wrote about before (boundaries, taking care of oneself, deprivation, control...), but with a higher level of maturity . Because she does not go back to the basics, I would advise not to read this book without reading first her earlier work. If you have, then it provides additional hindsight and a wiser point of view.There are also new ideas. She insists to de-stigmatize codependency, explaining that it is just "normal behaviours, plus", that it is just a stage of grief - and I must say I find this new idea really interesting. There is a chapter about nurturing that I liked - she did not write about it earlier because she did not know what it was. And there is a whole section about emotions that I found really useful - I am one of these folks who have difficulties simply feeling. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Great Book and Helpful Coping Skills for Life *by M***S on March 15, 2025* This is a great updated version and has a lot of applicable information for current times. ## Frequently Bought Together - The New Codependency: Help and Guidance for Today's Generation - Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself (Revised and Updated) - The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations for Codependents (Hazelden Meditation Series) --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.kg/products/2433849-the-new-codependency-help-and-guidance-for-todays-generation](https://www.desertcart.kg/products/2433849-the-new-codependency-help-and-guidance-for-todays-generation) --- *Product available on Desertcart Kyrgyzstan* *Store origin: KG* *Last updated: 2026-05-06*